I will start off with, my journey with babysitting was only supposed to be short term, five years and I would move on.

I had twins that at the time were six and we had our daughter and I wanted to be with her. Recommendations of babysitting just seemed perfect for the fit.

It started slow, just a few kids. Church friends and family mainly. Well, I soon learned there were many people who needed a good and trustworthy daycare provider. I had a houseful before long.

It was great! Children are honestly very simple. They need lots of love, patience galore and oh yes to be fed. A kind heart and a big smile and you have a child’s love forever.

The hardest part of the journey is letting them go when they reach school age since most start their time with me as babies. I literally become momma number two. That’s exactly what the parents strive for as well, someone who loves them as much as they do when they are away.

Many ask, “how in the world do you have the patience for all those children?”, and the answer is very simple, if you treat people correctly, no matter what age, they in return will treat you the same way back. The children and I had many great days together and lots of time was spent outside playing as well.

Am I a professional? I guess in one sense I am. Did I read books and manuals on how to care for children? No way!! We take it one day at a time because just as you and I have good and bad days, children do as well. Each day is different and brings new trials and errors daily. You simply have to decide that today WILL BE a great day and keep the optimism and they will give you great outcomes.

Children are very intrigued in learning I have discovered. They thrive off of behaviors and actions. It is very important to be that role model for young children so hopefully it will instill greatness for their futures. It only takes small actions to change a life.

I hope in the end I have made a positive mark on them. I hope they always remember their Jess and how much I do truly care and loves each child I have crossed paths with. How long will I continue, who knows? I never imagined it would be 13 years, but here I am.

I would love feedback or maybe even advice on things. I would love to talk about how I do things, even if it’s not by the book, real hands on are the best guide on how to.